added a tldr to the CONTRIBUTING.md guidelines

CONTRIBUTING.md

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 # CONTRIBUTING
 
+## Tldr
+
+**Do's**
+
+- Be concise
+- Follow the [Formatting Rules](#formatting-rules) to the best of your ability
+- Segment larger changes into managable, reviewable commits
+- Leave a trail of your development so I can tell you put some effort in (doesnt really
+  apply to smaller commits)
+- Write your own code
+- Leave some way of crediting your work
+- Disclose the capacity in which you used AI. Most of the time, anything more than making
+  examples or helping you understand the codebase will be disallowed. As little AI code
+  should make it to production as possible
+
+**Dont's**
+
+- Report upstream issues to me (ie an issue with the app itself, not my config)
+- Make major structural changes
+- Submit chore commits such as updating the flake, I can do that myself
+- Add new hosts for no reason, make your own flake and import the modules you want for
+  your host
+- Majorly change existing hosts for your own preference
+- Ask AI to fix your issues and expect me to merge changes
+- Delete existing modules. Executive decisions like that will be made at my disgression,
+  and will be done as non-destructively as possible, such as moving those modules to a
+  "deprecated" branch in the future.
+
 ## General format
 
 All emails regarding this repo (or another) should have a subject prepended with the